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Thank you all for a great 2016.  The best parts of writing have been learning and connecting with amazing people like yourself.

Facts About Coaching Greats:

  • After 6 seasons, Bill Belichick’s head coaching record was 41-55.
  • Cowboy’s coaching legend, Tom Landry, experienced his first winning season in year seven of his career. His winning percentage during that time was .311.
  • John Wooden did not win his first national championship until year 17. He could never win the “Big One.” Ten National Titles later he proved people wrong.
  • Mike Krzyzewski’s record was 111-106 in his first eight years as head coach and 38-47 during his first three seasons at Duke.
  • In 22 years as a Big League skipper Jim Leyland experienced ten losing campaigns.
  • Four-time Super Bowl winning head coach, Chuck Noll, had a 51-60 record in his last eight seasons. His first three years as a head coach he compiled a 12-30 record.

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Misconceptions About Success:
  1. It comes easy: Studying coaching greats, you can see that most, if not all, struggled at some point in their career. If you want to be great, be prepared to fail.
  2. The path is straight: There will be peaks and there will be valleys along the journey. Stay humble when you are on a peak and confident when you are in a rut.
  3. Reaching the summit is the best feeling in the world: Please watch the video below (it is the best TEDx  talk that I have seen) about Alison Levine’s experience conquering Mount Everest. The journey is more memorable than conquering your goal. “Lessons From the Ledge.”
  4. Hard work guarantees success: Somewhere along the line we developed the idea that hard work means you will get the results you want. It doesn’t. There are no guarantees. That is the beauty of it.
  5. There’s no such thing as luck:  Call it want you want, timing or being in the right place at the right time; there is often an element of luck involved. Most highly successful people are humble enough to acknowledge that circumstances, at some level, played a huge part in their success.

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Are You Struggling?
Have you ever been frustrated with your lack of success?  You have a clear goal.  Maybe it is a weight loss goal.  Possibly you’ve dreamed of greater financial success or climbing the corporate ladder. You’ve changed your habits.  In addition, you have worked hard; really hard.  While your friends and colleagues have played, you’ve sacrificed.  You are doing all the right things, BUT, here is the hard pill to swallow….the results have actually gotten worse!

Sports can teach us a lot. The graphs display results of some of the all-time coaching greats.  We are talking the top 1% of coaches in their given sport.  There was adversity in their careers. We have developed misconceptions about success.  We believe that John Wooden never had a player upset with him.  You can guarantee he did (there are stories of disgruntled Wooden players).  We believe that Coach K was able to experience immediate success.  It is not true; in his first eight years he was around a .500 coach.

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My Advice to Myself:
I have a few pieces of advice after studying some of the titans in coaching.  Please understand that the advice is for myself.  Hopefully, my reminders, can assist you as well.

  1. Never compare your journey to someone else- The goal is to experience our best self;  comparing will only lead to arrogance or frustration. Neither are admirable.
  2. Focus on the next 200 feet- Sometimes goals seem insurmountable. Chunk it down. Focus on winning segments of the day. Looking too far ahead will make you want to stop.
  3. Embrace the valleys- Yes, there are going to be challenges along the way. Everyone experiences struggle. Who are we to think we are above adversity? Be different. Take a challenge; adjust our thinking. We are in this position for a reason.
  4. Connect with others– Along the journey we will encounter special people. Don’t take them for granted.
  5. Help someone- There will be times when you have the ability to enhance someone’s life experience. Do it.
  6. You’ll need assistance along the way- Your success will be the result of many things but none more important than the people you are surrounded by; parents, spouse, friends, bosses, administrators and your assistants. There is no way you can do it alone. Don’t forget it.
  7. Stay in the Fight- the best coaches of all time very rarely reached the ultimate prize (Super Bowl Champs, World Series Champs, National Champs). However, they never “gave a season away.” Each opportunity is special; treat it as such.
  8. Everything is not in our control- What if Tom Landry got fired after his fifth losing season in a row?  Is he still considered great? What if Coach K doesn’t get hired at Duke after going 9-17 in his last year at Army? Would he be the coaching icon he is today?
  9. You will face critics- Your name will get drug through the mud. You will upset people; sometimes you will be to blame and other times you will not. Accept it, apologize sincerely, and move on. I wish it could be seamless; however, it is not.
  10. It’s not about reaching the summit- Treat others well, work hard; “smell the roses” and develop deep relationships. Understand that the end goal is not the most important thing; instead, it’s what you experience during the journey.

I don’t know much, but I do know we have a misunderstood concept of what success and goal pursuit actually looks like.  If you are doing the right thing and not getting the results you want, join the club! Success isn’t a straight line; just look at the legends of coaching.  Let me say it again, we are talking about elite level coaches! You can clearly see their careers were not exempt from struggle, nor was their success a perfect climb.  Why would we expect ours to be? You are in insanely good company.  Put your nose down, keep working hard, be kind, enjoy the journey and understand that you are exactly where you need to be.

I don’t know about you, but this week I’m going to embrace this moment in my quest.  Great things are destined to happen; however, it isn’t going to happen on my time or exactly the way I planned.  Thank you all for being a huge part of my journey.

With much respect,

Mike

Happy New Year!  Are you looking for a simple way to make a difference in 2015?

Commit to writing more handwritten notes.

I have a great friend who owns a radio station in Marietta, OH.  Several years ago, he challenged me to write five handwritten letters a week.  To date, I haven’t been able to keep up the pace of five a week; however, I am confident that the notes I have sent out have been well received.  The general theme of my blog is “Life Lessons Learned through Athletics.”  First, let’s take a look at two handwritten notes and one typed note from athletics.

1. Fall 2013.  Kansas State hosted  a FCS opponent North Dakota State in their season opener. Although NDSU is a perennial power, the smaller school was not supposed to have a chance against Kansas State.  In a very tight, physical game NDSU defeated KSU 24-21.  If you follow college sports you know that there is a ton of pressure to win.  Programs like Kansas State are supposed to dominate smaller schools, compete for conference and even national championships.  A loss against a FCS opponent brings ridicule and can often lead to the firing of the coaching staff.  What’s amazing about this story is not NDSU “slaying the giant”; it is about how KSU’s head coach, Bill Snyder reacted.  What was Coach Snyder’s reaction? He wrote NDSU’s star quarterback, Brock Jensen, a handwritten note.

Following a devastating loss, Coach Snyder reacts by sending a classy note

Following a devastating loss, Coach Snyder reacts by sending a classy note

2.  The “Iron Bowl” is one of the most intense rivalries in all of college football.  The game means everything to the fans of both Alabama and Auburn.  Alabama’s kicker, Cade Foster, had a tough game in their 2013 loss missing all three of his field goal attempts.  He received death threats on social media following the game.  Former President, George Bush, took the time to write the discouraged kicker.

Our 43rd President took the time to pen a letter to #43 for the Crimson Tide

Our 43rd President took the time to pen a letter to #43 for the Crimson Tide.

3.  Recruiting is a competitive environment.  If you have ever recruited, you know that it is crushing when a prospective athlete chooses another school.  So much time and energy are invested into the prospect that very strong emotions, even anger, can overcome you.  In 1980, Coach Krzyzewski lost a decent player to arch rival North Carolina.  Did Coach K respond by telling Michael Jordan what a bad choice he made?  Did he bash UNC and Coach Dean Smith? No, he sent Michael Jordan a letter.

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Please allow me to pass the challenge on to you, increase the number of handwritten notes you send this year.  Here are some specifics for the challenge:

  1. Write five handwritten notes a week: You can do this.  Head Virginia Tech Basketball Coach, Buzz Williams, wrote 425 letters a week when he graduated college.  If Coach Buzz can write 75 notes a night, we can surely do five a week.  Here is a blog post from Coach Buzz describing his passion for note writing.  He is one of my favorite leaders to study. http://coachbuzzwilliams.com/2014/10/handwritten-notes/
  2. It Must be Handwritten: Emails do not count.  Take the time to “put pen to paper.”  We’ve become inundated with email; we’ve almost become desensitized to email.  A handwritten letter leaves a much bigger impact.
  3.  Make sure some letters are to people who can do nothing for you: Sure, we all want to send letters to potential employers or donors, but I challenge you to write to someone who cannot help you.  What you will find is that by lifting their spirits you will also lift yours.

Let me share four handwritten note experiences that are very special to me:

  1. My Aunt Maureen sends me a birthday card every year that includes an update on her family.  She has been sending me these letters since college.  I look forward to receiving her card and note in the mail every September.
  2. One of my favorite things to do is give our seniors my favorite book, The Alchemist.  I’ve been doing this for several years dating back to my time as an assistant at Marietta College.  The best part for me is writing a note in the back of the book to each individual.  Corny, maybe?  But my hope is the book (and note) will help them at some point in their life.
  3. Following our first National Championship in 2006, I sent handwritten letters to 50 coaches that I dreamed to work for.  I received several responses but one note resulted in a mentorship that I greatly value.  One simple letter has resulted in nearly a decade relationship that has had a tremendous influence on my career.
  4. Last year, a close friend of mine gifted me the book, “David and Goliath” by Malcolm Gladwell.  The book was great; however, what I value most is the note on the inside cover.  I’ve read the book twice; I’ve read his note countless amounts of time.

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I’d enjoy to hear your stories on how handwritten notes have impacted your life.  Please send me your story or provide me with an example of the power of a handwritten note.

Be Outstanding,

Mike

Don’t judge me- I spent a lot of time at the Meadows Racetrack as a kid.  My dad loved the horses, I loved my dad; therefore, I ended up loving the race track as well.  By the time I was ten years old I could read a racing program with the best of them.  I could tell you the best drivers (I went to harness horse races, they were drivers not jockeys) and trainers at the Meadows; in addition, I could tell you the difference between an exacta and an exacta box.  As a ten year old, I wanted to grow up to be either Ozzie Smith or a horse race driver.

Amongst the cigar smoke and beer, a kid can learn a lot at the racetrack (for the record, I never saw my father take a drink of alcohol or smoke).  Today, I will discuss the lessons I learned and how they apply to baseball and leadership.

1.  Statistics can be misleading- There is a ton of information in a racetrack program- some people would spend an exorbitant amount of time analyzing the data.  While it is important to look at the information, somethings can be misleading.  For example, you could look at two horses and see one ran the last race in 2:00 and another horse ran it in 1:57.  On the surface, it looks like you should go with the 1:57 minute miler.  But what if horse A raced on a 1/2 mile track (which are typically slower) and horse B raced on a 1 mile track?  Or, what if horse A has a more experienced driver this week- could that make a difference in its performance?

In baseball, we have become inundated with statistics and numbers.  If we are not paying attention to analytics we are missing out on a great opportunity to help our programs.  However,  we cannot allow the numbers to paralyze us; especially in the college game.  Most of the statistics we receive are numbers from the pro game.  Call me “Johnny College Guy”, but if there are runners on 1st and 2nd with 0 outs, and we are down a run in the 9th, we will be bunting 99 out of 100 times.  On a side note, if the same situation occurs in the 1st inning will be bunting 95 out of 100 times.

Just like evaluating horses, you must respect the numbers but also realize that they are…just numbers.  Some of the best handicappers trusted their gut when “picking their ponies.”  My advice in baseball (and business) is to gather as much information as possible and then make a bold, decisive decision. Numbers can lie.

2. Long Shots Can Win

If you go to the races long enough you will see a 30-1 shot win.  No matter how poorly the horse performed in the past, how bad of a driver was leading them, or how great the competition- as long as you were in the race there was a chance.

At Marietta, we were always the hunted- it was like having a bullseye on your chest.  We were a measuring stick for a lot of programs.  During my years there we were beat by many “long shots.”  I learned to always prepare regardless of what the competition looked like on paper.  Coach Schaly and now Coach Brewer never “saved” a pitcher for another opponent.  If your best pitcher was ready- he threw regardless of the situation.  Those men knew that you could be beat on any given night.

At Denison, I learned what it was like to be the underdog.  My experience at the track allows me to get excited to play the best teams regardless of what the match-up looks like on paper.  We want to play the best teams and see their best pitchers.  Games are not won or lost based on previous results unless you allow yourself to be beat mentally prior to the contest.  If you are in the arena you have a shot; long shots can and do win.  You must go into every battle expecting a positive result.

3.  Pay Attention to the Bloodline

My dad always wanted to know the mother and father of the horse.  He was a big believer that the physical and mental traits of the parents would eventually emerge in their offspring.  Even if the horse failed to perform to date, dad would say, “His father was a competitor.  He’ll be good one of these days.”

For the past two years we have tried to find players that are “good fits” for our program.  However, you are not just recruiting the player you are also recruiting the family.  As we all know, parents are involved in the lives of their children more than ever before.  We want to make sure that the parents understand and share our vision for the baseball program.  We explain our core principles and try to drive home that we are committed to playing who we believe are our best players.  When it comes to playing time, it is never personal, it is a meritocracy.  Our staff makes mistakes, my wife thinks I’m wrong with who we play and parents do as well; however, we are trying to put the team on the field that gives us the best opportunity for success. I believe this is critical to the health of your program.  If the parents display red flags during the recruiting process there is a strong chance that problems will develop later.  Our goal is to recruit motivated, young men from strong families.

4.  It’s More about the Driver than the Horse

Year after year you would see the same drivers at the top of the standings for wins and winning percentage.  Some people just had a knack for getting the most out of their horses.  Oftentimes, the best drivers would be asked to drive two or three different horses in the race.  Who they chose to drive would be a great predictor of who would win the race.

It seems like you see the same programs near the top of the standings every year.  They graduate great players, lose assistant coaches, and injuries occur; however they still have successful campaigns (Ohio State football just provided us with a great example).  I truly believe leadership is the most accurate predictor of success.

When I was younger, I believed that the drivers were successful because they had a gift- that they were simply blessed with the ability to win races.  Now I know that like any great leader, chances are they developed this “gift” by tirelessly working on their craft.

Every life experience provides an opportunity to learn.  At the time, being at the track meant spending time with my dad- there was nowhere I would have rather been.  Who would have thought those “tutorials” would still be benefitting me today.

Be Outstanding,

Mike Deegan

Here is a link to a video of Will Smith sharing his secrets to success.